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10 Estate Planning New Year's Resolutions

10 Estate Planning New Year's Resolutions

There’s nothing quite like the new year to make you think of fresh possibilities and new beginnings.

There’s also nothing quite like way too much turkey, wine, and football over the holidays to make you realize that you should maybe consider some lifestyle changes.

“New year, new me” and all that jazz.

You have probably already started on your list of New Year’s Resolutions: read more, get a gym membership (and actually use it this time), spend more time with family, etc.

But there is one more goal you should add to your list: organize your estate plan.

Related post: 7 Reasons People Delay Estate Planning

There are a lot of reasons to avoid estate planning. But if you don’t have an estate plan, your family and friends will be the ones who suffer the most.

To help you stick to this goal, here is a handy list of 10 Estate Planning New Year’s Resolutions:

1. Get a Trust and/or a Will

You, like a majority of Americans, may not have a living trust or a last will and testament.

You may not even know what those documents are. Which one is better? Which one is right for you? What are the differences between a will and a trust?

Get Our Free 2018 Estate Planning Checklist

Get Our Free 2018 Estate Planning Checklist

Prepare yourself to be shocked: 2018 is almost over.

If you’re like me, you’re looking forward to a few weeks of Christmas carols, football, family, bowl games, presents, and (best of all) football.

This is also a great time to look back on the year that was:

Perhaps you started a new job or got a raise; maybe you made an addition (by birth or marriage) or subtraction (by death or divorce) to the family; or maybe you purchased a house, received a windfall inheritance, or started a new business.

Life can change a lot in a year.

But do those life changes mean you need to make changes to your estate plan?

To help you answer that question, we have put together a 10-question checklist to review your estate plan.

5 Estate Planning Tips for Unmarried Couples

5 Estate Planning Tips for Unmarried Couples

Like it or not, marriage is a business proposition.

"But isn't it also about love?" Yes, yes. Love and feelings and all that stuff. But marriage can also have a huge financial impact on a family.

Marriage (or, rather, not being married) can have an equally huge impact on an estate plan.

According to U.S. Census Bureau data, the number of adults in cohabiting (unmarried) relationships relationships is up 29% since 2007. That's about 18 million adults, roughly half of which are younger than 35.

With this rising trend of cohabitation among Millennials, it is important — perhaps more now than ever — to understand the estate planning implications for unmarried couples.

Do unmarried couples need an estate plan?

Remember that there are two sides of estate planning: What happens to your STUFF when you die and who takes care of your SELF when you become incapacitated. 

Those goals do not change when you get married, so an estate plan for an unmarried couple usually looks about the same as an estate plan for a married couple. It is just much more important that an unmarried couple has an estate plan in the first place.

Married With Children: Estate Planning for Young Families

Married With Children: Estate Planning for Young Families

When you have a kid, everything else usually takes a back seat.

Sleep? Forget about it.

Free time? Never heard of it.

There's often no time for fun things like hobbies or other activities — which means that it can seem like there is definitely no time for un-fun things estate planning.

But what if something unexpected happens:

  • What happens to your child if you or your spouse suddenly die or become incapacitated?

  • Who takes care of your child's medical needs and daily care?

  • Who manages your assets until your child reaches adulthood?

You might think that the answer to these questions is obvious, but the law might not agree. And your own written notes or spoken instructions generally aren’t legally enforceable.

To address these sensitive questions, you should have an estate plan.

Why do I need an estate plan?

I have talked a lot about the importance of having an estate plan. That doesn't change when you have kids.

In fact, having children makes having an estate plan even more important.

No Kids? Why You Still Need an Estate Plan

No Kids? Why You Still Need an Estate Plan

Many young couples think that, if they don't have kids, they don't need an estate plan. After all, if you die, everything is going to your spouse anyway, right? Not always.

What happens if we don't have an estate plan?

If you are married with no kids, and you do not have an estate plan or prenuptial agreement providing otherwise, the law in Oklahoma says that everything you have goes to your spouse. However, as we have discussed before, your spouse must still go through probate before he or she can actually get your assets. This is the case even if you have a Last Will and Testament providing that your spouse gets everything.