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Estate Planning Basics You Need to Know

Estate Planning Basics You Need to Know

Most people have been told that they need an estate plan, that it’s a smart thing to have.

But what exactly is estate planning?

Why is it important to have an estate plan?

Those are great questions, Dear Reader. And I could talk about them for hours… But not in this post. In this post, I want to give you the short-and-sweet answers.

How Do You Define Estate Planning?

Estate planning is an immensely broad topic.

It includes everything from probate avoidance to asset protection, from tax planning to insurance policies, and from family law to business formation.

But estate planning can be boiled down to a simple definition:

An estate plan ensures that the right people are able to care for your SELF in the event you become incapacitated and that the right people are able to get your STUFF in the event of your death.

That’s it.

An estate plan is concerned with answering two main questions: (1) Who do you want to make decisions for you if you can’t make them for yourself? and (2) Who do you want to get your assets when you die?

Can I Write My Own Will?

Can I Write My Own Will?

Most people know the phrase "Do It Yourself" or “DIY.”

For me, “Do It Yourself” calls to mind weekend trips to Home Depot and learning how to do something new instead of paying someone else to do it.

Also Pinterest. It calls to mind Pinterest.

That’s part of what makes DIY projects so great: Who doesn’t love saving money and feeling proud of something they did themselves?

But there is a limit to what you can do yourself, right?

I can do some home improvement stuff myself, like painting walls or breaking the nice faucet on the kitchen sink.

However, things would get really dicey if I tried to act as my own plumber, excavator, or electrician without proper training and experience.

Doing those tasks incorrectly could have disastrous consequences.

The same is true of "Do It Yourself" estate planning:

A poorly designed estate plan can lead to massive probate expenses, family infighting (and ruined relationships), having your legal documents rejected, and much, much more.

The Dangers of “Do It Yourself” Estate Planning

If you aren’t familiar with “Do It Yourself” estate planning, here’s how the process usually goes:

Estate Planning: the Perfect Christmas Gift

Estate Planning: the Perfect Christmas Gift

This post is for parents.

It’s for kids.

It’s for grandkids.

It’s for anyone who wants to give or receive a present for Christmas or any other holiday you celebrate.

In short, this post is for everyone. Because everyone gives and/or receives presents and everyone can benefit by having (or by your parents and/or grandparents having) an estate plan.

So if you have been frantically searching for a Christmas present or racking your brain to come up with your own wish list, you can stop now. Your search is over. I have found the perfect Christmas gift.

Kids: Ask Your Parents For An Estate Plan

One of the funny things about getting older is that I have a lot more appreciation for stuff that I used to think was boring. Take socks, for example. If I get a good pair of socks for Christmas and nothing else, I would be content. And socks are so important and sensible, if I tell my parents I want socks for Christmas, they feel like they can’t say no.

Because what kind of parent would say no to giving their kid some socks?

Does a Name Change Mean I Should Update My Estate Plan?

Does a Name Change Mean I Should Update My Estate Plan?

Most people have the same questions about estate planning. What is the difference between a will and a trust? or do I need to go through probate? or will I need to pay estate taxes?

Since one of the goals of this website is to help you learn more about estate planning, I figured that I would share one of those common questions recently sent to me by a client:

I created a trust several years ago which provides that my daughter will receive 1/2 of my estate. But since my trust was created, my daughter gotten married and changed her last name. Do I need to update my trust in order for her to receive her inheritance?

It is not uncommon for people to change their names. A name change is most often due to marriage or divorce, but as the hit TV show Friends taught us, you can also change your name whenever you feel like it. (Author’s note: The episode where Phoebe changes her name to Princess Consuela Bananahammock and Mike changes his name to Crap Bag is pretty accurate. That is actually a legal thing that people can do.)

Considering all the time and care and money you have spent on your estate plan, it is important to make sure that name changes (for whatever reason they happen) do not mess it up.

Do I Need to Amend My Will or Trust?

Do I Need to Amend My Will or Trust?

When I was a kid, I really wanted a remote-controlled hovercraft.

I thought it looks awesome. I mean, just the idea of a flying remote-controlled car was amazing. So I saved up my money and bought one. Can you guess what happened next?

If you said, “I used it a few times and then never touched it again,” then you would be correct. The thing took like 37 hours to charge and you could only use it for two minutes until you had to charge it again.

I was really upset about it at the time. I kept thinking, “If only I could exchange this toy for another!” Unfortunately for me, Toys “R” Us hates children and refused to give me my money back. And that’s why I became a lawyer. For justice.

Here’s the good news: there is no Toy “R” Us return policy for your estate planning documents. You can update them, change, exchange, or revoke them entirely as long as you are alive and competent (with a few exceptions).

When should I amend my Will or Trust?

Some attorneys may try to convince you that your Will or Trust needs to be amended whenever you go through any significant life change. Buy a new house? Amend your Trust. Have a grandchild? Amend your Will. Finish binge watching Friends? Amend, amend, amend.